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NEW BOOK
Dealing with Death... The Journey to Peace
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GRIEF
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Pegasus Healing & Empowerment |
Healing Sessions
I offer unique grief counseling that provides healing at all levels: physical, emotional, and spiritual. Most of my clients describe the sessions as "powerful" and say they have never experienced anything like this before.
In a typical session, you are with me for 1 1/2 to 2 hours. Approximately 1 hour of that time is on a massage table (fully clothed) receiving Reiki energy work while doing Guided Imagery. (The Guided Imagery component allows you to connect with your lost love one. I explain this further below). The balance of the session (before and after the table work) is spent getting to know each other so that I can better serve you and so you feel safe and comfortable with me. Our chat time will also be filled with education about spirit. This combination is extremely valuable. Please read on to better understand.
What Keeps us in Grief?
Most of us have been taught that death is the end of life. The fact that the loved ones body is no longer there, we can no longer touch them or see them, solidifies this belief. We are trying to adjust to the void left behind but there are two things that I believe significantly add to our grief. Fear of the unknown and unfinished business.
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Fear of the Unknown We don't really know for sure what happens when we die. Most of us have heard a variety of possibilities through out our life time, but we are confused as to what to believe. Many people believe in the concept of Heaven and Hell, but most Religion's teach us that God is vengeful and certain conditions are required to receive his love and be accepted to Heaven. So we wonder if our loved one made it to Heaven. Were they good enough? Did God forgive them for their sins? Where they reunited with other loved ones that have passed before them or are they trapped somewhere lonely and confused? There is no need to fear. The spirit does live on, in fact they are there for you whenever you think of them. For more information, please refer to my book Dealing with Death, The Journey to Peace. Today, there are a multitude of books available that give us glimpses of what happens when we die. Many people have survived "near death experiences" and told their stories. Although not everyone's experience is exactly the same there is always a common thread. Everyone describes a peace and joy that is beyond anything they have experienced on earth. Many people have experienced encounters with lost love ones, perhaps a dream that seemed too real, or a brief feeling that they are beside you. Some are easy to recognize, other seem like coincidences. Perhaps you are thinking of them and their favorite song suddenly plays on the radio or their favorite bird fly's by. There are no coincidences! Millions of dollars are spent each year by people seeking information about a lost loved one from Mediums. There are many very reputable Mediums out there that are bringing a sense of peace to those grieving. But we all have the ability to connect with loved ones on the other side. During a session with me, you will have the opportunity to experience this for your self, but you will also learn how to be more aware of your loved ones presence and how to develop a lasting connection. |
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Unfinished Business
The shoulda woulda coulda's reek havoc during the grieving process. We worry about so many things that we did or didn't do, said or didn't say. We should have spent more time with them. I should have said "I love you" more often. The last time we talked we argued, is he/she still angry at me? Are they disappointed with me? He/she died before seeing me get married or before seeing their grandchild. This list goes on and on. So many things that we senselessly beat ourselves up about.
The truth is that there is absolutely nothing to worry about. When we die we are filled with peace and love. Those on the other side don't hold a grudge, they don't feel anger or disappointment, they don't judge you, they have only unconditional love for you.
Through Guided Imagery you have the opportunity to connect with your loved one and say all the things you wish you had said when they were alive, you can right any wrongs that you perceive to exist, you can have all your questions answered and ultimately find peace.
Unfortunately, unfinished business comes in many forms. Sometimes we are grieving the loss of a parent or relative that we had distanced ourselves from while they were living or perhaps we even hated. A trusted loved one had hurt us somehow and the pain of the trauma is still there, left unresolved. You don't understand how you could be grieving someone that hurt you so deeply. These types of issues need to be resolved and can very successfully be managed through Guided Imagery.
What is very important to understand is that when that person that hurt you died, they see their lives and their actions from a different perspective. They see the entire picture. We all come into our bodies with an intended plan or path, knowing what we want to experience in this lifetime. Many Religions talk of "judgment day", but the only judgment that actually occurs is our own. We look back at our intended plan and at whether we accomplished our goals or not. The soul goes through a time of healing to come to terms with their earthly actions. When you work with these individuals through Guided Imagery, you find they are remorseful and that they are coming from a place of unconditional love. Here you can find resolution and healing. |
The Importance of Experiencing all Aspects of the Grief?
In general, Society is very uncomfortable with death. As a result, most people seem to be in such a hurry for you to "get over" your grief and loss. It seems that you are constantly being encouraged to "stuff it down" and "get on with your life". I am here to tell you first hand that ignoring your grief, thinking that time heals all wounds, doesn't work. The underlying issues of fear and unfinished business don't go away on their own. The will get quieter as time goes on, but they will most likely resurface and you will find yourself right back in the throws of grief as though it happened yesterday.
We are all unique individuals and we each handle our grief uniquely. My mother and father lost two babies in their early years together. In addition, my father lost a four year old daughter from a previous marriage. They had both experienced these loses together but how they dealt with them were completely different. My mother decided at a subconscious level that if she didn't get close to anyone again, then she wouldn't get hurt again. As a result, she pushed away my father, and was never able to show affection for me or my sister. Thankfully, my father turned his grief in a different direction. He saw my sister and I as another chance to love and he was the most loving and affectionate father imaginable. Had it not been for my father's influence, I may have carried the legacy of a cold heart and raised my children without a hug or an "I love you". What a shame that would have been.
Understand that how you deal with your grief obviously has a tremendous impact on you directly, but it also impacts all of your relationships. You owe it to yourself. the loved one that has passed, and your remaining loved ones to live through all aspects of your grief in order to heal.
I have traveled the road of grief and I know now that I am at peace because when I think of my father there is no longer a sadness. I know he is safe and happy. I know he is here when ever I need him. I know I can talk to him and experience him in meditation (self guided imagery) or in my waking hours. In fact, as I am writing this I feel his presence and it brings tears to my eyes. But they are tears of joy because I have discovered the truth about eternal life. I still have my father, he is just missing his physicality. I have had to learn and adjust my perception of his existence. Just as a person that suddenly becomes blind must learn to use other senses to experience life. Because the person has lost their eye site, has everything around them disappeared? No, everything is still there, the blind person just needs to find a new way to function, a new way to experience.
How Can I Help You?
As I mentioned before, we all have the ability to connect with spirit, we all have intuition and access to "all that is". By listening to my intuition and honoring my connection to "all that is", I help you to find the answers you are looking for, to mentor you on your spiritual journey. My goal is to guide people to the innate wisdom that lies within themselves. However, there are times when a client is having difficulty connecting. In these times, the spirit of their loved one speaks through me. I do not profess myself to be a John Edward or Sylvia Browne. Accessing such channeled information is not something I can turn on and off, it only seems to come through when it is needed.
Let me be your guide on your journey peace. If you would like to discuss your situation or wish to make an appointment please call or email me. Click here for Contact Info